The Man - Monica Yates

The Man

A 7 week journey for you to get rid of  your trauma so that you can be free of the things that hold you back from achieving your goals and being deeply fulfilled.

I want you to get curious with yourself for a second…

  • Do you find yourself second-guessing your relationships with women? 
  • Are you struggling to communicate what your heart wants to share? 
  • When a woman wants you to open it, does it feel like ‘too much’?
  • Do you often feel like fully expressed women can be overwhelming for you and therefore it can cause you to shut down? 
  • Have you noticed patterns in your romantic relationships that you don’t understand, yet are so fucking ready to fix? 
  • Are you feeling insecure and nervous about even reading these questions because your ego doesn’t like to admit that you aren’t THE fucking MAN yet? 
  • Are you craving, desiring and deeply wanting an amazing, fun, supportive, and stable relationship with a woman? 
  • Do you wish that you and your guy friends were more open and helpful when it came to talking about things?
  • Were emotions and feelings never really talked about in your family? 
  • Do you struggle to trust your feelings? Because feelings aren’t facts? 
  • Does any part of you think ‘can this young woman really be the one to help me?’ – spoiler alert – yes, I will be.
  • Do you find yourself always busy with work and looking for the next best thing? 
  • Do you struggle to keep your focus on one woman at a time? 
  • Have you noticed that when life is a bit rocky, you have created some coping mechanisms like going out, dating, drinking, exercising a lot, working more etc?
If you answer ‘yes’ to any of these questions, you are in the right place and THE MAN is going to rock your world.


This is your chance

to be THE man

THE Man/

A man that is grounded in his masculine energy. He operates from his heart, and when in his head it is not through the eyes of his ego or trauma. He is The Man that allows others around him to feel safe to open up. His presence is electric and people can not get enough of him. He is conquering everything. His relationships, his job, his finances, his goals, his health, and his family. He is a man that is direct, discerning, kind, open, warm, protective, strong, bold, soft and in his leadership. Men want to be him and women want to be with him.

Whilst 80% of those in the personal development world are women, it doesn’t mean that men don’t have their own set of trauma, insecurities and struggles that also need to be healed.

I know that you are desiring to be the man.

To be able to feel confident, secure and strong within yourself and for the women in your life.

I know that you are wanting to feel like a rock. And currently, you’re feeling less than this…

You’ve probably seen the way that I’m able to heal women’s traumas faster than the speed of light and you’re like “when is it my turn?”


Over these intimate, deep and transformational 7 weeks

You will be healing parts of you that you didn’t even know hurt, uncovering the deepest pain that is holding you back from being the man that I know you are so deeply wanting to be and stepping into the version of you that makes you proud when you look in the mirror.
We will be diving into…
  • Healing all of your inner child wounds so that you are no longer acting like a boy and instead be the grounded man that you desire to be. So you are not being held back by your triggers, insecurities or racing thoughts. 
  • Clearing your blocks around speaking what’s on your mind, insecurities in the bedroom, body and work. 
  • Finally feeling like you are well and truly enough for her, in the bedroom, in the boardroom and/or as a dad. 
  • Embodied in being THE man, not mr nice guy and why this is important.
  • Leading her in the bedroom in a way that is going to blow her panties off.
  • Healing your inner masculine so that you can be the man to get her out of her masculine and into her feminine so that she is leaning on you for support, no longer emasculating you and receiving all of your masculinity.
  • Understanding women and how to be in relationships with them so that they are being pleased emotionally, as well as you. 
  • NAILING your communication so that you are dating high-quality woman and so that your woman is always staying open, receptive and warm to you (no more snarky comments, silent treatments of explosions of everything wrong you’ve done in the last year).
  • Expanding your nervous system so that you can be the best man at work, at home and in the gym. You will be able to do EVERYTHING that you want to do and never feel like anything or anyone is ‘too much’ – this will be great for dads too.


And I know this will seem scary and like a crazy, possibly illogical leap and investment…

But. I want you to ask yourself this, what is the cost of you not investing?

Put aside your ego and ask, what do you want even if it's a bit scary?


THE MAN is for the man that wants to

  • Use your voice powerfully in board meetings.
  • Draw boundaries with people and say ‘NO’ instead of always being a ‘yes man’.
  • Stop self-sabotaging amazing connections and relationships because the emotions are overwhelming for you.
  • Understand women instead of feeling confused by them time and time again.
  • Finally, work on your shit so that you can stop repeating the same patterns over and over again… because it’s BORING!
  • Be proud of yourself every day and feel like you are enough for your romantic relationship, work and family.
  • Feel like communicating your feelings and hopes are easy.
  • Be able to understand, connect with and please your woman in a way most other men can’t 😉
  • Be a rock for your woman where she comes to receive all your safe protective, masculine energy.
  • Have direction in what you want to achieve and work towards in your life, from a place of soul, rather than societal expectation.
  • Be SO god damn happy that you wondered why it took you this long to do this work.
It's just 7 weeks to change your life


Just an FYI, 90% of men will wait to do this work until they hit rock bottom, their relationship falls apart, they lose their job or they have a massive health scare…

Let’s not wait until we hit rock bottom. Let’s act now, shall we? Why wait for things to get worse when you could just make them better.

You will no longer need to feel shame or guilt for wanting to take the lead and be in control in your relationship.

You will not longer feel a ball in your throat when you try to speak your truth, draw a boundary, or try to ask for what you want in the bedroom.

You will no longer feel an emptiness inside, but rather a sense of ‘coming home’, peace and flow inside your body that makes life easy, productive, and like you are accomplishing everything you’ve wanted to.

You will finally understand what is going on in her brain so that you can be the best lover, dad and partner to her. This will also be helpful for those that have working relationships with women.

FINALLY, you’ll be free of all those little things that set you off, trigger your body, and/or get you into a spiral. Your anxiety, worries and things that keep you up at night will be long gone.


What's the investment?

USD$4300 (spilt payment plans are available). And please know, my prices are based on the VALUE of the transformation. You are worth this money and you really can’t put a price tag on becoming The Man.

Do you offer a payment plan?

Yes! A two month payment plan is available.

Is this the first men's program you've offered?

My first round of The Man begun in January 2022. I’ve worked with men before in 1:1 containers and couple’s coaching.

When will my 1:1 be?

Your 1:1 needs to be booked within the 7 weeks. The exact dates will be confirmed in your welcome package.

When will my 1:1 session be?

Your 1:1 session will need to be booked within this 7 weeks and after the first group call (which is on the 20th September).

When is the next round?

The second round of The Man will begin in September 2022. Each of the 7 group calls will be held at 4pm EST:

Tuesday, October 4

Tuesday, October 25
Tuesday, November 1

What if I can't make the group calls?

You will be sent a recording after each live call. It’s important to dedicate time the same week to catch up on the recording. If you can, try and join the live calls. So many clients message me after group programs saying “I’m so proud of myself for showing up to the live calls even though it was 5am for 7 weeks because I got the results that I wanted”.

How does it work?

You will have a 60 minute live call each week, for 7 weeks, plus a 60 minute 1:1 session during this time. You will also get access to reprogramming tracks, a list of books and podcasts, lifetime access to your 1:1 and group call recordings and a Telegram group for questions.

Can any man join?

Absolutely! If you’re reading this page, chances are The Man is going to be a great fit! I truly care about my clients results, so if I feel like you’re not ready, or I don’t think it’s a good fit, I’m not just going to take your money and run! I take a lot of care into pointing my clients into the best direction because I have your best interest at heart.

How old do I need to be?

18+. AND you’re never too old either!

How do I join?

Make sure you join the waitlist to be first to know when enrolment opens for the second round. If you know you want to join, you can skip the waitlist and join straight away (just email

Do I need to be in a relationship?

Nope! This is all about YOU becoming The Man. In fact, your partner won’t have much to do with it. HOWEVER, he/she will definitely feel and reap the benefits.

What's your refund policy?

This agreement has no cancellation policy. WHY? Because this is about commitment, dedication and action. Monica Yates turns up to every session, email, text and voice message with her 100% commitment and it is up to you to take action to get the results. Often we have backdoors in other courses and areas of our lives which means that fear allows us to not stand in our power and take action, and as a result we don’t get the value we want. If we have security blankets, we too often use them which is why we don’t see results. If you have in the back of your mind that a refund is available, chances are you won’t put in your full effort.

Is it live?

Yes! The 7 x group calls and your 1:1 session will be live.


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