Men's 1:1 Trauma Healing, Embodiment and Re-Coding - Monica Yates

Men's Life Coaching

For those men that are craving MASSIVE breakthroughs, and are after the highest value from our time. You get to be the sexiest, strongest, most protective and magnetic man ever.


Maybe you are operating from a wounded masculine blueprint?

Do you carry a lot of anger? (and if you say no, then that a big fat fucking YES)

You are easily triggered

You aren’t feeling like you’re fully living your purpose or passion

You want to be making more money

You aren’t 100% confidence in yourself and therefore you don’t fully value what you bring to the world

You struggle to understand the women in your life and you get really frustrated with them

You find it hard to be vulnerable and open up because you are afraid of being ‘weak’ and/or getting hurt

You allow your ego to run your life and this usually plays our by never letting anymore else be right, you always need to have the last say

You constantly are wanting to prove yourself and get validation from other people in your life

You tend to bitch about women a lot behind their backs

You are insecure and worry about little things

You know that you have repressed a lot of emotions and haven’t fully dealt with them

You don’t have much control over your sexual desires

You try to fix women or control them instead of understanding how to be supportive and hold the space

You struggle to get out of your head and into your heart

You have trust issues and worry that people are going to fuck you over or reject you

You often threaten to leave in relationship

You struggle to fully commit to your partner and are constantly trying to just ‘get your dux in a row’ (When really you are just scared)

You are emotionally unavailable or you love the start of a relationship and then you freak the fuck out

You hold onto grudges against your part partners

All of those things that you answered yes to, can be healed.



How it works…


My work uses a combination of energetic techniques, inner child healing, ego dismantling, emotional alchemy, Neurolinguistic programming, subconscious reprogramming, trauma release, meditation and visualisation to release all the wounds that you have that are holding you back from feeling ‘whole’.

After nailing coaching with women on how to embody more their feminine and release the masculine shell that so many of us get up carrying around, I was seeing more and more how much Men also needed to do the work.

I know the power in men healing with women especially because a lot of their wounding is actually caused by women. So now is the time for me to hold the space to guide men back to their divine masculine.

There is nothing more delicious, sexy and alluring than a man in his full masculine power. UGH DELICIOUSSSSS

Working with myself, will allow you to be:

  • Co-creating with the divine feminine
  • The best lover, partner and leader for your woman
  • Feeling like you are no longer out of control in your life and/or relationship
  • Communicating with women in a way that makes you feel strong, empowered and reliant 
  • Being grounded and knowing how to connect with your heart and be out of your head
  • Having the best sex of your life because you are able to connect with your body
  • No longer be bogged down by your narratives from mum, dad, and society that are keeping you playing small
  • Feeling whole and complete after doing epic trauma release with me to let go of the things that you are shoving under the carpet
  • More in your body and not operating from your ego
  • Honoring your feelings instead of repressing them
  • Getting what you what because you are communicating efficiently
  • Feeling happy, joyful and energetic 99% of the time (because 1% of the time we have our human moments)
  • Learning how to create the life of your dreams so that you can be the protector and provider that you want to be
  • More productive with your time and creating healthy habits and routines to support your next level self
  • Living on purpose and fulfilling your mission and vision
  • Changing your mindset to one that is going to get you everything that you want
  • In control of your own life and being your own leader

Being fully embodied in your divine masculine and opening from your soul instead of your ego is the most incredible gift that you can give yourself.

Sadly, you have grown up in a world where women have been squashing and emasculating men for too long and I’m here to help you heal that wound for good.

Prepare to go where you don’t want to go, be pushed out of your comfort zone and be re-birthed as the best version of you.

I have helped hundreds of women with my coaching create their dream life and live with more ease and flow, and I’m so excited to be able to help you get out of survival mode and put your life in order. 


WARNING: The woman in your life, or your future woman will not be able to keep her hands of you after this ?

If you are feeling a pull towards doing this, I invite you to book in a deep dive call and we will have a in-depth chat about how what results you are wanting to get, where things are working and what it looks like to worth together. This way you will feel comfortable, supported and secure before going into a coaching container.

Please note, working with me 1:1 is an investment of money and time. Depending on the package, prices range from USD11 – 25K. If you are not wanting to face your things, let down your walls and never be triggered by your past again, then this container is not for you. You *must* be ready to step out of your victimhood and comfort zone. 

If you are not ready to make such a deep commitment to yourself, I recommend looking at my other group programs or online courses  

Examples of things my clients fully heal from (as in they are NOT triggered by it at all. They do not have to tell themselves to calm down, or do a certain breathing technique to get out of a panic attack. I do not just give tools, I actually make the pain and triggers go away)

  • Drug addiction and abuse from family members and/or themselves
  • Alcoholism from family members and abusive that came with it
  • Any level of sexual assault/abuse
  • Emotionally unavailable parents
  • Emotional neglect as a child or at any stage of your life
  • Avoidant or anxious tendencies now and/or as a child
  • Death of loved ones and how that affects you now
  • Being ‘cold’ and struggling to soften, let people in and be vulnerable
  • Fear of being intimate or you get in your head when having sex
  • Religious trauma
  • Bullying
  • Trauma from your partner having a miscarriage or abortion
  • Communication and being able to speak your truth in any and all situations
  • Fears of rejection and/or abandonment
  • Anxiety of any sort
  • Always being in a fight or flight response. Being stressed all the time, overwhelmed, fear of not doing enough
  • Being very reactive, quick to explode, or be aggressive
  • Partners that have cheated, broken your heart, lied to you, manipulated you
  • Controlling partners or parents
  • Abuse of any kind (physical, emotional, mental)
  • Being addicted to the hustle
  • Accidents of any kind (car accidents, ski accidents, bike, horse riding, etc…any kind of physical accident that makes you nervous to go and do the same thing again)
  • Skin issues (rashes, constant flare-ups, acne)
  • Body image issues
    and so much more


Book a discovery call


You’ll stop suppressing your emotions, and be comfortable feeling them

Deal with the shit that you know is affecting you (and you probs don’t want to admit it!)

Become that sturdy masculine man that isn’t swayed by the toxic masculine culture

Let go of the shame, guilt and fear that you are holding onto

Feel deeper levels of ecstasy and intimacy

I'm ready to

commit to

my vision