A 4-week guide to stop emasculating men, and letting them lead
So you want your man to lead, you’re frustrated that he forgets things, you end up planning 80% of the dates and you feel like you have to be in control of everything.
It’s time for us to end this silent war between men and women.
Answer this for me…
Are you craving…
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It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
And I know you’re CRAVING for him to rise into his leadership. Both physically, mentally, and emotionally in the relationship.
The problem is, that we are becoming accustomed in society, to shaming men. Thinking that putting them down, emasculating them, will get us what we want. And no surprise, we are left feeling empty and helpless.
Babe, men are also craving for you to soften your heart, trust that he has good intentions, and let him lead. He wants to support you, hold you, and love you.
So how about you let him in?
Babe, they are right in front of you. Problem is that you are emasculating them and therefore they have given up taking the lead. They have tried and then get squashed by the bitterness of angry women that haven’t learn’t how to be in their feminine energy and receptivity. So they’ve put their hands up as if to say “well nothing I do seems enough, so I give up.”
It’s now our responsibility to learn how to receive from men, communicate with them, and empower them to rise again.
It’s a combo of learning to receive (and stop being a control freak) and supporting them through your words and actions so that they can rise again.
This is your guide…
It’s complex these days. The blurred lines of what’s acceptable and what is taken the wrong way. Men are struggling. They are afraid of crossing the blurred lines and with every women being so different they never know what they are walking into.
So, I have created Be a Lover, Not a Mother to guide you and teach you how to encourage your current or future man to rise.
Whether you are dating, single, in a long term relationship or wanting to learn how to just receive from men day-to-day, this program is for you.
It can feel overwhelming and confusing in the dating world right now.How do you get your man to rise into his healed masculine so that you can just relax into his arms at the end of a long day?
How do you stop thinking that every time a man does something nice for you, that he’s trying to get into his pants?
How do you stop feeling so fucking exhausted all the time?
The answer — letting men do things for you. Supporting them in their desire to lead and our desire to receive.
And babe: If you don’t even know what ‘emasculation’ is … then you GOTTA do this program cause there’s a 99.99999% chance that you are doing it without even realizing
In this program, you will finally feel empowered around letting men lead, you will feel so fucking turned on in letting go. You will drop your need to be a control freak and learn how to support your man (or future man) in rising.
This is supporting not just you, but the men in your life to stop feeling suppressed and like they need to shut down their experiences.
Let’s support men in feeling empowered in being open and being themselves. The flow in effect from this program will be fucking amazing. You will be able to support your son (or future son) in being an amazing man, as well as supporting all the men in your life.
This is a movement. Let’s release the anger that we have towards men and instead start loving them.
Let’s see the goodness in their hearts and return the favor.
Let’s realize that the masculine is truly the most nourishing energy to the feminine.
Imagine what it would be like to just say thanks to a man for holding open the door and feeling looked after in that moment (and not creating a story in your head about ‘oh he just wants to get into my pants’). Imagine feeling good about going to a man when you need help instead of trying to do everything yourself. Imagine walking in the door after a long day and seeing that your man has cooked you dinner and tidied the house (and don’t think “oh that would never happen.”). Imagine being a rock for your man when he’s having a rough day and knowing that he’s not internalizing his mental health struggles. Imagine just being able to say ‘thanks’ and receiving a beauty date night when he pays the bill.
Imagine not competing with men either consciously or subconsciously anymore. IMAGINE THAT.
Imagine being in your own lane as the feminine, and him being in his own lane as the masculine.
Imagine.
If these words are turning you on, making your heart flutter and getting you excited about the future. Then join us.
By joining this first intake of BLNM, you will be able to come to all the calls LIVE and ask me your questions. Then after this round, the program will be sold as pre-recorded content so I highly recommend joining us live!
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*Please note that I will not be heavily active in the Facebook group or answering questions/giving loads of advice. Questions/advice will be given in the live calls and not in the Facebook group.
so that you are the first to be notified when it opens!
Monica is your period and human brain expert. For women, she has a strong focus on the subconscious brain, feminine and the impact it has on your body. For men, guides them to heal from the toxic masculine culture relieve you from emotional numbness. Monica’s coaching is next-level deep work. Prepare to cry, scream and feel like the most whole and complete version of yourself.
