A guide to stop emasculating men and letting them lead
So you want your man to lead, you’re frustrated that he forgets things, you end up planning 80% of the dates and you feel like you have to be in control of everything.
It’s time for us to end this silent war between men and women.
Answer this for me…
Are you craving…
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It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
And I know you’re CRAVING for him to rise into his leadership, both physically, mentally, and emotionally in the relationship.
The problem is that we are becoming accustomed in society to shaming men. Thinking that putting them down and emasculating them will get us what we want. And no surprise, we are left feeling empty and helpless.
Babe, men are also craving for you to soften your heart, trust that he has good intentions and let him lead. He wants to support you, hold you, and love you.
So how about you let him in?
Babe, they are right in front of you. Problem is that you are emasculating them and therefore they have given up taking the lead. They have tried and then get squashed by the bitterness of angry women that haven’t learned how to be in their feminine energy and receptivity. So they’ve put their hands up as if to say “well nothing I do seems enough, so I give up”.
It’s now our responsibility to learn how to receive from men, communicate with them and empower them to rise again.
It’s a combo of learning to receive (and stop being a control freak) and supporting them through your words and actions so that they can rise again.
This is your guide…
It’s complex these days. The blurred lines of what’s acceptable and what is taken the wrong way. Men are struggling. They are afraid of crossing the blurred lines and with every women being so different they never know what they are walking into.
So, I have created Be a Lover, Not a Mother to guide you and teach you how to encourage your current or future man to rise.
Whether you are dating, single, in a long term relationship or wanting to learn how to just receive from men day-to-day, this program is for you.
It can feel overwhelming and confusing in the dating world right now. How do you get your man to rise into his healed masculine so that you can just relax into his arms at the end of a long day?
How do you stop thinking that every time a man does something nice for you, that he’s trying to get into his pants?
How do you stop feeling so fucking exhausted all the time?
The answer — letting men do things for you. Supporting them in their desire to lead and our desire to receive.
And babe, if you don’t even know what ‘emasculation’ is… then you GOTTA do this program cause there’s a 99.99999% chance that you are doing it without even realizing
In this program, you will finally feel empowered around letting men lead, you will feel so fucking turned on in letting go. You will drop your need to be a control freak and learn how to support your man (or future man) in rising.
This is supporting not just you but also the men in your life so they stop feeling suppressed and like they need to shut down their experiences.
I learnt so much about myself – I never thought before about how easily I was emasculating men, but now I can see both HOW and WHY. This programme has made me realise it is safe to be at ease, to let others help me and that I don’t need to be doing everything in life! It’s made me feel less stressed and that has been obvious to people in my life.
When I first started BLNM I was relating to men from a masculine shell. Throughout BLNM I learned how to lean back, tune into my heart and womb, and trust a man to lead and be in my feminine enough to LET him lead. I learned how to nourish my own feminine when I felt “needy” and how to ask for things in a way that was sexy and inviting rather than demanding and harsh. Most of all, I learned how to build trust in my own heart and feminine expression so that men want to lead me and be vulnerable with me. Thank you so much Monica for your knowledge. I’m so grateful I took BLNM and highly recommend it to any women who wants to sink more deeply into her feminine and create connection with all the men in her life.
This was so Wonderful! I loved the weekly format over four weeks and how much Monica gives to her community (the vibes were divine!). I learnt how insidiously societal emasculation can niggle its way into our minds and I feel more confident in nurturing myself and communicating to men and my boyfriend overall.
This was an amazing program that enlightened me to be more embodied in my feminine to help support him in his masculine. Every call there were SO many juicy tidbits that lead to me being able to understand and support my man better. This program is an amazing bridge that I will be drawing on everyday for the rest of my life- much like all of Monica’s other programs. I’ve done Queen Alchemy earlier this year, so if you are concerned about overlapping content, it is a completely different course that stands on its own; while still holding the core roots that are in all of Monica’s programs. I highly recommend taking this program! No matter what stage your relationship is at, everyone can benefit from the content. It has significantly improved my understanding of men, thus, my relationship. Thank you so much Monica!
This program is a must for every single woman to support her inner feminine and all the masculine around her. Becoming aware and building that polarity is truly life changing. It doesn’t happen over night but I hear Monicas voice and wisdom in moments and realize Im breaking patterns. Soon it will be my norm. I am beyond grateful for this offering because there is absolutely nothing like it.
Let’s support men in feeling empowered in being open and being themselves. The flow on effect from this program will be fucking amazing. You will be able to support your son (or future son) in being an amazing man, as well as supporting all the men in your life.
This is a movement. Let’s release the anger that we have towards men and instead start loving them.
Let’s see the goodness in their hearts and return the favor.
Let’s realize that the masculine is truly the most nourishing energy to the feminine.
Imagine what it would be like to just say thanks to a man for holding open the door and feeling looked after in that moment (and not creating a story in your head about ‘oh he just wants to get into my pants’).
Imagine feeling good about going to a man when you need help instead of trying to do everything yourself. Imagine walking in the door after a long day and seeing that your man has cooked you dinner and tidied the house (and don’t think “oh that would never happen”).
Imagine being a rock for your man when he’s having a rough day and knowing that he’s not internalizing his mental health struggles. Imagine just being able to say ‘thanks’ and receiving a beautiful date night when he pays the bill.
Imagine not competing with men either consciously or subconsciously anymore. IMAGINE THAT.
Imagine being in your own lane as the feminine and him being in his own lane as the masculine.
Imagine.
If these words are turning you on, making your heart flutter and getting you excited about the future, then join us.
INCLUDED:
*Please note that I will not be heavily active in the Facebook group or answering questions/ giving loads of advice.
A juicy chat with 4 incredible men. This is a true insight into men’s brains, their outlook, opinions and feelings. Some amazing questions were answered with a male’s perspective on things.
The differences between men and women, how we date and communicate, our primal and soul needs and a juicy Q+A.
No, the first round was live (this was the only live round) and as newcomers to this program you get access to the recordings of all these calls.
Enrolment will be open and closed throughout the year. If you’re desperate to join, email hello@monicayates.com.au. Otherwise, join the waitlist to be notified of when I next open enrolment!
USD$1222. This includes 6 x 60 minute+ calls (including a panel chat with 4 incredible men), a FaceBook group to share your wins and connect with other ladies, access to the modules for life and access to any future updates to the program.
This something I feel incredibly passionate about as I’m very aware of how much men are struggling. It’s now our responsibility to learn how to receive from men, communicate with them and empower them to rise again.
You will learn how to stop emasculating men. You will finally feel empowered around letting men lead and you will feel so fucking turned on in letting go. Your relationships with men will improve massively. You will learn how to support your man in rising. This is supporting not just you, but also the men in your life so they stop feeling suppressed.
This agreement has no cancellation policy. WHY? Because this is about commitment, dedication and action. Monica Yates turns up to every session, email, text and voice message with her 100% commitment and it is up to you to take action to get the results. Often we have backdoors in other courses and areas of our lives which means that fear allows us to not stand in our power and take action, and as a result we don’t get the value we want. If we have security blankets, we too often use them which is why we don’t see results. If you have in the back of your mind that a refund is available, chances are you won’t put in your full effort.
Yes! The payment plan is USD$722 per month for two months.
Monica is your period and human brain expert. For women, she has a strong focus on the subconscious brain, feminine and the impact it has on your body. For men, guides them to heal from the toxic masculine culture relieve you from emotional numbness. Monica’s coaching is next-level deep work. Prepare to cry, scream and feel like the most whole and complete version of yourself.
